"Can you make an I. D. bracelet with part of my favorite song on it?"
But of course.
What's on your wish list? Call us at 415/796-3969, and we'll make it happen.
San Francisco Jewelry Doctor, where dreams come true every day.
Tuesday, July 12, 2016
Saturday, January 2, 2016
Perfect Timing
As our story opens, Donald Smith, a smart, savvy, perfectly competent individual in many respects, needs a little advice, and turns—not for the first time—to his friend Bill. There’s the phone in Bill’s kitchen, ringing as he looks at two packages, trying to decide which one to microwave. Let’s listen.
“What’s up, Donald?”
“I am such an idiot.”
Bill laughs. “Tell me something I don’t know. Look, buddy, I’m in the middle of something.
What is it this time?”
“Very funny. Listen: Richard proposed to Miranda on the
eighth night of Chanukah. Get it, the
eighth night? Significant. Brian popped the question on Christmas
Eve—just outside the church. And to kick
off the new year, Sean stopped a cable car yesterday (you know how they hate it
when you pull that cord, but when they saw what he was doing they rang the bell
over and over and cheered).”
“Great. What’s your point?”
“It’s January 2nd. We don’t have another holiday till
Valentine’s Day.”
“And?”
“It needs to be at a special time.”
“Buddy, guys have been popping the question for centuries, and most of them didn't have a calendar when they did. And since you’re the one who does strategy for a living, have you considered why now might be the absolute perfect time?”
“Oh, come on.”
“Oh, come on.”
“I’m serious. She’s not expecting it, you dodo! Let’s move on. Did you get the ring?”
“No. There’s so many places, and I hear they just want to sell you the biggest diamond. I’m not Zuckerberg.”
“No. There’s so many places, and I hear they just want to sell you the biggest diamond. I’m not Zuckerberg.”
“Okay, let’s do this: get off the phone with me and call Laynie Tzena at
San Francisco Jewelry Doctor, 415/796-3969.”
“I thought they just did restoration.”
“No. It’s a full-scale jewelry design business. Remember the ring Chris showed us? She designed it. Do a search for Laynie Tzena Design and San Francisco Jewelry Doctor, and you’ll see what other people have said about the rings and other jewelry she’s helped them with. I’m sending you an example. And Donald?”
http://www.tupalo.co/san-francisco-california/tzena-laynie-design
“I thought they just did restoration.”
“No. It’s a full-scale jewelry design business. Remember the ring Chris showed us? She designed it. Do a search for Laynie Tzena Design and San Francisco Jewelry Doctor, and you’ll see what other people have said about the rings and other jewelry she’s helped them with. I’m sending you an example. And Donald?”
http://www.tupalo.co/san-francisco-california/tzena-laynie-design
“What?”
“Do not overthink
this.”
“Who, me?”
“Hi. I know you. So listen, just call Laynie, tell her what kind of ring you have in mind, and she’ll take good care of you. Text me once you have the ring, and we’ll go get a beer. Do not call or text me until you have done this.”
“Who, me?”
“Hi. I know you. So listen, just call Laynie, tell her what kind of ring you have in mind, and she’ll take good care of you. Text me once you have the ring, and we’ll go get a beer. Do not call or text me until you have done this.”
“Okay. I’m calling her now.”
“Good man.”
As the light fades outside Bill’s window, we wonder (well, perhaps you wonder; the Jewelry Doctor, being a doctor, knows everything): Will Donald make that call? Will Bill choose the right meal to microwave? What will Donald’s sweetheart say?
Stay tuned.
As the light fades outside Bill’s window, we wonder (well, perhaps you wonder; the Jewelry Doctor, being a doctor, knows everything): Will Donald make that call? Will Bill choose the right meal to microwave? What will Donald’s sweetheart say?
Stay tuned.
©2016 Laynie Tzena.
Friday, December 25, 2015
"You Shouldn't Have!"
It’s that time again. You open the box—
“Oh, honey! You shouldn’t have!”
Because even though you love him—really, you
do—you do not love that jewelry.
And you know he meant well. Some store clerk said all the women were wearing it this year and he thought, “Great!”
And you know he meant well. Some store clerk said all the women were wearing it this year and he thought, “Great!”
Not long ago a woman on
the bus, upon hearing I’d just written an article to help men make better gift choices (right here: http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/2014/04/hard-to-shop-for-not-any-more_27.html), said, “I’m giving that to my
husband,” who had, with the best of intentions, bought her diamond
hoop earrings. Not little, delicate
earrings, which is her style. J. Lo
hoops.
“What was he thinking?”
she asked.
Poor guy. He was in a store, nervous, wanting to do the
right thing, and the clerk sold him the earrings.
And she didn’t mean any harm, either. She just didn’t know your style. He went along with what she said the trend
was, and she forgot how women view trends: We view them. We think about
them. We think about what part of the
trend looks like something we would actually wear. At least, most of us do.
So there’s the box,
destined for your drawer. Not to worry. Take it out. Bring it to the Jewelry Doctor. Those big diamond hoops? No reason the diamonds can’t be repurposed in
other earrings, or a pendant, or maybe a ring. And the hoops themselves? They
can be set with other gemstones. Garnet, for
example, or citrine, or amethyst.
“But I wouldn’t wear
them.”
Right. But that friend of yours that loves big
everything? Honey, you now have her
birthday gift.
Or say he gave you a
gold pendant. You think the sapphire in
it is wonderful. But you haven’t worn
gold in years. You like platinum. (Or white gold. Or sterling silver.)
Fine. The sapphire goes in a platinum pendant
mounting for you, and the gold pendant mounting is set with lapis, or blue
topaz, or smoky quartz. Another gift.
Maybe somebody gave you a choker, and you don’t wear chokers. Fine. We can make the choker into a longer necklace. Or the necklace is too long, and you end up wrapping it around and around and around. We can make that into two or three separate necklaces that you can wear separately or together.
Perhaps you like some of the elements in the necklace, but it doesn’t work for you as a whole. We can take it apart and redo it. Or the pendant he gave you is tiny, but you’re not, and it’s lost on you. We can put a frame around it. (See how we solved that challenge here:
http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/2009/04/music-for-josie.html).Perhaps you like some of the elements in the necklace, but it doesn’t work for you as a whole. We can take it apart and redo it. Or the pendant he gave you is tiny, but you’re not, and it’s lost on you. We can put a frame around it. (See how we solved that challenge here:
So gather everything you
have no intention of ever wearing (or wearing again), call Laynie at San Francisco Jewelry
Doctor, 415/796-3969, and we’ll make it all better.
“Promise?”
Promise. Oh, and you know the best part? It’ll be our little secret. Just tell him he’s the greatest. Well, he is, isn’t he? Of course he is. He’s with you.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
Wednesday, December 23, 2015
"A Little Something" Is A Very Good Thing
“We're going away for the holidays, so I don't really
need a gift.”
How lovely! And when your beloved hands you your gift,
you just smile and say, “Well, the trip is my gift.”
Fade to sunset.
Does that ever work? Sure. It works really, really well--if you also use
an "under-the-pillow" gift.
“What’s an ‘under-the-pillow’ gift, pray tell?”
I thought you'd never ask. An under-the-pillow gift is
a surprise gift. You've already said you're not exchanging gifts, or the trip
is a gift, or just being together is a gift.
All fine. And people still like to receive
gifts--especially surprise gifts.
So just before bed, you place a little box under the
pillow. (If it's still there when you're ready to leave the next day, then just
say something like, “Oh, drat. I can't find my favorite pen. I was writing
something in bed. Could you see if you can find it?” Then wait for the “Wow!”)
“Okay, I get it. What goes in the box?”
It could be a pair of pretty earrings--a lot of folks
like martini earrings. Gemstone earrings are also perfect. Or maybe she'd like a
solitaire pendant, or a tennis bracelet?
Stuller is a great source for all of the above--plus we have handcrafted jewelry in porcelain, Venetian glass, Swarovski crystal, and gemstones. To see Stuller jewelry, just key in the name (plus “.com”), using your favorite search engine. Jot down the item numbers of your favorites, and call us so we can check on pricing and availability.
To see our handcrafted jewelry, just send an email (and call us at 415/796-3969, so we know the email's coming--there is that holiday in two days); we'll send you pictures on the double.
Stuller is a great source for all of the above--plus we have handcrafted jewelry in porcelain, Venetian glass, Swarovski crystal, and gemstones. To see Stuller jewelry, just key in the name (plus “.com”), using your favorite search engine. Jot down the item numbers of your favorites, and call us so we can check on pricing and availability.
To see our handcrafted jewelry, just send an email (and call us at 415/796-3969, so we know the email's coming--there is that holiday in two days); we'll send you pictures on the double.
Just one thing: minutes ago,
we received a message from Santa saying “Don’t delay” (he’s
got the reindeer just about ready to go), so call us at 415/796-3969, and we'll put our heads together about the
perfect "under-the-pillow" gift for you.
Monday, December 21, 2015
Saddle Up the White Horse
“Nooooooo!”
“Janet,
what’s wrong?”
“Oh, Bob,
I was just getting my jewelry organized for the weekend—you know, it’s not just
Christmas, but all the parties over the weekend—and my favorite necklace got
caught on something, and now it’s broken!”
“Now, Janet, don't worry. We’ve been through this before. This
would only be a problem if we didn’t have a jewelry doctor. But we do. So just call Laynie at San Francisco Jewelry Doctor. And I'd call her now, because it’s the busiest
week of the year. Honey, I bet she can fix it
in time. And if for some reason it can’t
be fixed, she’ll take one look at it and recommend something just as pretty, or
even prettier.”
“Hooray! I just found the number. Write this down, would you? 415/796-3969. Oh, Bob, I’m so glad I married you!”
"And I’m sure
glad I found out about San Francisco Jewelry Doctor,” Bob thinks. "Wonder if this makes up for forgetting our anniversary that time." But he just
says, “Oh, honey, me, too.”
San
Francisco Jewelry Doctor. Creating happy
endings (and beginnings—ask us about engagement rings), one day at a time.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
Thursday, December 17, 2015
Add a Little Color
At a holiday gathering I met a woman wearing a wonderful blue jacket with a silver thread. She was striking and so was the jacket.
I looked at her earrings. They were also silver, about two inches, almost like an exclamation point without the dot. Very pretty. I looked at her blonde hair and then at the jacket.
"Ever wear color?" I asked.
Not often.
Nothing wrong with that. But I always tell my customers, "My goal is to help you find great jewelry in keeping wih your style--and every so often, to encourage you to stretch a bit."
So I said, "Your earrings are great," and they were, "but you know what would also be pretty with that jacket?"
She waited.
"Sapphire," I told her. "Or lapis." (Blue topaz would have been another good choice.) "Don't be afraid of color."
I think many people instinctively reach for gold or silver--and don't get me wrong, a lot of metal jewelry is really beautiful--because they haven't been taught how to work with color. (And yes, sometimes also because they are running out the door and it happens to be the easiest thing to reach for.)
So wear your metal jewelry. And when you get home, maybe over the weekend, when you have a moment take a look at the clothes you especially love to wear and consider what colors you would like to highlight.
"Can you give me some more ideas?"
Absolutely! To schedule a jewelry wardrobe consultation (and for all your jewelry needs), call us at 415/796-3969. (Yes, we'll also give you ideas for how to combine accessories for a great look.)
Just as you choose a blouse or scarf to jazz up that suit or sweater and skirt, let your jewelry make your outfits sing.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
I looked at her earrings. They were also silver, about two inches, almost like an exclamation point without the dot. Very pretty. I looked at her blonde hair and then at the jacket.
"Ever wear color?" I asked.
Not often.
Nothing wrong with that. But I always tell my customers, "My goal is to help you find great jewelry in keeping wih your style--and every so often, to encourage you to stretch a bit."
So I said, "Your earrings are great," and they were, "but you know what would also be pretty with that jacket?"
She waited.
"Sapphire," I told her. "Or lapis." (Blue topaz would have been another good choice.) "Don't be afraid of color."
I think many people instinctively reach for gold or silver--and don't get me wrong, a lot of metal jewelry is really beautiful--because they haven't been taught how to work with color. (And yes, sometimes also because they are running out the door and it happens to be the easiest thing to reach for.)
So wear your metal jewelry. And when you get home, maybe over the weekend, when you have a moment take a look at the clothes you especially love to wear and consider what colors you would like to highlight.
"Can you give me some more ideas?"
Absolutely! To schedule a jewelry wardrobe consultation (and for all your jewelry needs), call us at 415/796-3969. (Yes, we'll also give you ideas for how to combine accessories for a great look.)
Just as you choose a blouse or scarf to jazz up that suit or sweater and skirt, let your jewelry make your outfits sing.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
Wednesday, December 16, 2015
Can Mommy Have Jewelry?
“My wife loves jewelry,
but we have a new baby. What to do?”
Mazel Tov, and here's the good news: while dangles (both pendants and earrings) are out, for the moment--little ones love to tug, and Mommy's jewelry goes flying--there is still plenty of jewelry Mommy can wear*.
Studs
Stud earrings are a great way to go. Choose from gold, platinum, and sterling silver studs, either plain, with a pretty pattern, or set with diamonds, pearls, or whatever gemstone you prefer.
“Hi. I'm a guy. I know zero about gemstones.”
Well, the Jewelry Doctor thinks you're being too modest. You probably know a fair amount about gemstones. But here are posts specifically designed to help you purchase gemstones with confidence.
Is your wife a blonde? Here are some ideas for jewelry that looks great on blondes. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/blondes
You say she's a brunette? Have a look here. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/brunettes
“What about redheads? My gal's hair is red.”
Lucky you. Here are great ideas for you. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/redheads
Where were we? Ah, yes. Stud earrings. When the baby goes to college--okay, when Baby stops pulling on Mommy's jewelry--those gemstone studs can fit perfectly in earring jackets.
“There are jackets for earrings?”
Yes. An earring jacket is a flat or slightly curved piece of jewelry designed with a little opening for the stud. (Jackets are also a fine choice for those wanting to update stud earrings they bought years ago or were given as a gift for a special occasion.)
Button Posts
Moms can also enjoy "button posts." As the name suggests, these are earrings that sit flush against the ear the way a button does on a coat or sweater. They come in a wide variety of designs, from tiny ones similar to studs to larger ones that make a statement. (Clip earrings are often button posts, and most can be converted to pierced.)
"Mommy Necklaces"? Maybe. Maybe Not.
"What about those necklaces advertised for new mothers?"
The jury is still out. Some people think they're fine; others raise concerns about what exactly Baby is chewing on.
Rings
Rings (especially right hand rings) are a wonderful choice. Those with a bezel setting are ideal. (Bezel settings are the kind that wrap around the stone: no prongs to get caught, or to tempt those tiny fingers to see "What's that?") And that ring can be set with a gemstone--cabochons are best bets, with a smooth, half-moon surface that won't scratch when Baby comes in for a hug.
*Yes, it's also fine to give the new mother a "push" present. But if she's a smart mama, anything that dangles will be saved for "Mommy and Daddy's night out."
"What's a "push present"? These are gifts given after the birth of a child. They range from an especially luxurious bouquet of flowers to--well, Beyonce's gift from Jay Z after the birth of Blue Ivy was an eight-to-ten carat blue diamond ring :>. Feelings are mixed about push gifts. Some say the name isn't ideal, and neither is the concept. Others say, "Hush, I want to give my wife a gift. She just carried our baby for nine months." If that's you, let's put our heads together about a push present your wife will treasure.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
Mazel Tov, and here's the good news: while dangles (both pendants and earrings) are out, for the moment--little ones love to tug, and Mommy's jewelry goes flying--there is still plenty of jewelry Mommy can wear*.
Studs
Stud earrings are a great way to go. Choose from gold, platinum, and sterling silver studs, either plain, with a pretty pattern, or set with diamonds, pearls, or whatever gemstone you prefer.
“Hi. I'm a guy. I know zero about gemstones.”
Well, the Jewelry Doctor thinks you're being too modest. You probably know a fair amount about gemstones. But here are posts specifically designed to help you purchase gemstones with confidence.
Is your wife a blonde? Here are some ideas for jewelry that looks great on blondes. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/blondes
You say she's a brunette? Have a look here. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/brunettes
“What about redheads? My gal's hair is red.”
Lucky you. Here are great ideas for you. http://myjewelrydoctor.blogspot.com/search/label/redheads
Where were we? Ah, yes. Stud earrings. When the baby goes to college--okay, when Baby stops pulling on Mommy's jewelry--those gemstone studs can fit perfectly in earring jackets.
“There are jackets for earrings?”
Yes. An earring jacket is a flat or slightly curved piece of jewelry designed with a little opening for the stud. (Jackets are also a fine choice for those wanting to update stud earrings they bought years ago or were given as a gift for a special occasion.)
Button Posts
Moms can also enjoy "button posts." As the name suggests, these are earrings that sit flush against the ear the way a button does on a coat or sweater. They come in a wide variety of designs, from tiny ones similar to studs to larger ones that make a statement. (Clip earrings are often button posts, and most can be converted to pierced.)
"Mommy Necklaces"? Maybe. Maybe Not.
"What about those necklaces advertised for new mothers?"
The jury is still out. Some people think they're fine; others raise concerns about what exactly Baby is chewing on.
Rings
Rings (especially right hand rings) are a wonderful choice. Those with a bezel setting are ideal. (Bezel settings are the kind that wrap around the stone: no prongs to get caught, or to tempt those tiny fingers to see "What's that?") And that ring can be set with a gemstone--cabochons are best bets, with a smooth, half-moon surface that won't scratch when Baby comes in for a hug.
*Yes, it's also fine to give the new mother a "push" present. But if she's a smart mama, anything that dangles will be saved for "Mommy and Daddy's night out."
"What's a "push present"? These are gifts given after the birth of a child. They range from an especially luxurious bouquet of flowers to--well, Beyonce's gift from Jay Z after the birth of Blue Ivy was an eight-to-ten carat blue diamond ring :>. Feelings are mixed about push gifts. Some say the name isn't ideal, and neither is the concept. Others say, "Hush, I want to give my wife a gift. She just carried our baby for nine months." If that's you, let's put our heads together about a push present your wife will treasure.
©2015 Laynie Tzena.
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